If you have ever been controlled by someone else, you know how bad it made you feel. If that person was tricking you and you even realised only after a while that you have been controlled, you probably felt used and betrayed.

Sadly control many times comes from the people that are close to us and we care about. Even more sad is that we think that this person also cares about us.

Don’t you be mislead by his or hers sweet words, be sure that person who tries to control others, cares only about him or herself and is doing this because of low self-esteem.

Besides that, if you control anyone, you must be aware that this will prevent you from knowing what that person’s real actions might be. Maybe you think that you know the best, but everyone has the right to be himself and you might be even positively surprised by that person’s actions.

Let others to do what they intended to do and you will have the chance to see the real colors and real intentions, which you might even like. Don’t be to sceptical, give it a shot! 🙂