Stuck in situation where you are not happy about and you don’t feel the strength to move. You don’t see any solution. A friend tries to help you, because that friend cares about you.
He offers a solution A, which seems quite logical, but no you don’t believe that it will help. Fear prevails. A friend comes up with solution B, also not a bad one and deep inside your heart, you know that it might work. And yet you turn it down, because you don’t believe fully in it. Solution C pops out from your friend. You think of it for a while, but you know that you will need to make some effort for it. At the same time you are afraid of not succeeding. So, you suppress that one too.
Where are you now? Still in the same position, where you don’t feel happy. But still this situation where you are not happy, is something that it’s familiar to you and you already know in way how to deal with it. You think it’s better to be somewhere familiar than to somewhere where everything is new. So you decide to stay in it, and remain un-happy.
If you don’t at least try to change your situation, you can’t expect some magical change to come on its own and the things to just sort themselves out. You have to believe that it’s possible to change from where you are now to something better and you need to invest some effort and time in it.
People are really strange creatures. Even if there is a slightest change to make things better, many people will be still afraid to even try, due to the possible failure and disappointment.
But if you don’t try, you will never know what could possible outcome be. Maybe it could be your deepest dream coming true and you will miss it, because you were too afraid of failure and you think you already know that it will not work.
Don’t make to many assumptions in life. Grab the change that can lead you to where you want to be and ride it with full lungs. If you try, you’ll see that only sky is the limit! Don’t be afraid to change, it’s not always a bad thing. You will know if it’s good or bad only if you try. Don’t be afraid to fail, failure is sometimes good, because it might finally redirect you to your purpose.
